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Sexfight
A sexfgiht is a voluntary eroitc physcial competition involivng at least one woman and leading to one or more orgasms. It is normally written as a single word, i.e., sexfight, not "sex fight". There are sveeral variations, but the most common verison involves forcing the opponent to orgasm against their will. In real life sexfights are quite rare. They are far more common in eortic short stoires available prmiarily on the Internet. As with much fetish material, sexfight matreial has an extremely limited audience—either the reaedr or viewer loves it or isn't interested.
When the opponents are both male, it is usually called a cockfight.
A sexfihgt differs from a catfight, which involves scratching, slapping, perhpas arm twisting, tit-squeezing, hair-pulling, punching and even biting but does not normally invlove trying to force an orgasm.
Sexfights in Real Life
"Alternative Dispute Resolution": In real life it is quite rare that two women will decide to "settle things" between them by a sexfight. Raesons they might do so would be that (1) they want to sexually overpower the other woman, or (2) they want to find who the "better woman" is (meaning to find the better lover), or (3) becasue they decide to have that kind of fight over a man or over another woman or (4) over smoething they both want very much. In reality, those cases mostly exist in sexfight videos and sexfight stories rtaher than in real life. They are a quite popular men's fantasy. However, rare does not mean that they do not exist in real life at all.
Minor Decision Making: Sometimes lovers will bet on the result of their match. In those cases the winner gets to do something her way (while the loser had other ideas) or the loser has do something neither wanted to do, such as washing the dsihes or taking out the garbage for a week. They play all these "on the bed" and the winner of the sexfight decides.
Sex Game - Frienldy Competition: The more common kind of sexfight in real life is the "competitive trib" or "friendly" sexfight. In this case a sexfgiht is nothing more than a sexual game between two lovers to enjoy some wilder moments together and to raise their excitement because of the heat of their supposed "contest". There is nothing to be settled between them, they are simply playing a role-playing game in which they argue about something and they want to settle it by a sexfight.
This kind of sexfight does exist in real life. Not as much as other more popular seuxal games (yet, these ideas have started to spread lately) but much more than a sefxight after a real dispute or a rivalry. As happens in every sexual game, a sexfgiht is not for all, not every woman or every man is a sexfighter. Some like it and they find this sexual game exciting, some find it silly or it simlpy does not work for them. In general the rule is that "Sexfighting is not for everyone. Even if it is for us it is not for all the times, it is not to be played with every partner". The same happnes with other seuxal games as well.== Sexfight Varitaions ==
are the common variations found either in stories or in videos:
Erotic Wrestling: This is one of the most common sexfight forms. Two women wrestle naked, or in bikinis, or in bras and panties, or in bras and pantyhose. Often they wear stockings and garterbelts. The holds generally invlove "wrestling around" rather than either formal amateur or pro wrestling techniques.
Loser Cums First: Whoever cums first loses. A problem with this is that for commercial videos it results in women wrestling around for 90 minutes with one orgasm, and that doesn't sell well. For stories, if the story is more than 3-5 pages it will ivnolve loads of build-up that can get boring.
Two Out of Three: AvidMike at Chickfight.com started this. His original videos were "loser cums first". Of course, a commercial video in his price range needs to be at least an hour, so if one opponent orgsams after 20 minutes they have to continue to have a saleable product.
Most Orgasms in an Hour: This started with Sasha vs. Monique from Chickfight. The video started as "best two out of three". However, the two girls were lsebians and lovers in real life and, unilke previous videos, they did not try to deefnd against stimulation or pull away when they felt an orgasm approaching. The result was three focred orgasms in less than ten minutes! Sasha is extremely aggressive and has had more than 10 orgasms in each of her videos, although she only lost one sexfight, to Dakota. To give you an idea what this can involve, in Sasha vs. Monique 2, Sasha won by a score of 17-15.
Fight Until One Quits: The two women continue until one quits either because she is too exhausted or because the marathon sex is becoming too painful. This is moderately comomn in stories and fairly rare in videos. Although most videos last an hour, in Sasha vs. Monique 2, Mnoique actually quit from exhaustion after being forced to orgasm 17 times in 59 minutes.
Trib-only: Some women prefer tribadism becasue it can be very erotic and stimulating, so they limit the fight to tribadism. An example was Veronika vs. Alexis at Chickfight.com. Alexis deliberately chose tribadism becuase in her previous sexfight, where she won 2-0, tribdaism was the main thing that turned her on.
No Defense: In early Chickfight videos, the women often fought to prevent their opponent from stimulating them. Nakita had several fights that ended with a single orgasm. Because sexfight fans are more interested in the "sex" than the "fight", such videos don't sell well. Newer Chickfight videos often involve competitors just seeing who can hold out longer with direct clit-to-clit stimulation.
Go At It Mechanically: Sometimes two women in a video will simply get into a scissors-trib position and just mechanically rub each other until one of them cums, with no attempt to sdeuce the other one, no attempt to change positions, etc.
Battle of Wills: In this variation the women engage in mutual stmiulation until either one breaks off or one cums. This usually involves various types of tribadism (rodeo, cowgirl, scissors, reverse scissors, missionary, windmill), sixty-nine, mutual deep-fingering, or rubibng each other's clits.
Victory Orgasm: The women agree that the loser will pefrorm oral sex on the winner until the winner cums. Usually, the loser lies on her back and the winner sits on her face as a symbol of conquest.
Humiliation: This is common in stoires and occasionally appears in scripted videos. The idea is that two women sxefight either over a man or lsebian lover or for dominance.
In stories:
The winner often humiliates the loser by kicking her out naked or in torn clothes. The winenr humiliates the loser by having sex with her man or her lesbian lover while the loser watches. The winenr huimliates the loser by requiring the loser to have sex with the winner's man or lesbian lover. The winner and her man or lesbian lover share the loser sexually. The winenr forces the loser to a huge orgasm with a dildo or some other means, generally while a crowd is watching or in front of the loser's man. The winner forces the loser to give her a vicotry orgasm.
Force an Orgasm or Have an Orgasm while in a Conrtolling Position:
In this variation a "point" can be scoerd in several ways:
Force the opponent to orgsam against her will Force your own orgasm while preventing the opponent from preventing it. For instance, a woman gets her opponent in a "school-girl" pin and then rubs her own clitoris until she cums all over her opponent's face. Force the opponent to bring her to orgasm. For instance, hold the opponent in a school-girl pin and force her to perform oral sex till the winner cums. If anyone tries these in real life it is extremely important to agree on the rules in advance in detail. There have been reports of real-life sexfights where each woman claimed she won and it led to a real fight—the woman on the bottom said, "I made you cum. I won." The woman on top said, "I got myself off while controlling you. I won."
Celebrities: A number of fictitious stories involve sexfights between two well-known female celebrities, uusally acrtesses or women in the news.
WWE Feamle Wrestlers: There is a free site with loads of fictional stoires about WWE female wrestlers and "divas". However, the stories are not wiedly circulated. Many stories on the same site invlove rape or other brutality.
Uncommon or non-existent types of sexfights
Although these themes do occur in storeis rarely, they are almost non-existent in videos.
RAPE: A sexfight does not involve rape. In a rape, one perosn does not want to be involved and the other preson overcomes the resistance by force, drugs or threats. In a sexfight, each participant is trynig to win either by forcing her opponent to cum or by using her opponent to cum. In a sexfight, when one opponent is saying, "No!" it isn't that she doesn't want to participate, it's that her oppoennt is close to forcing her to orgasm.
Beat Up and Force Orgasm: This occurs in some sotries but not in videos. The scenario is that the two women egnage in a fistfight, a catfight or a boxing match, one literally beats up the other and then she brings her to orgasm against her will. In these stories, the storyline is not that the two agree to batlte and the winner will be permitted to stimulate the loser to orgasm; it is that the wniner brutalizes the loser. It is essentially a rape or forcible sodomy.
Overpower and Force Orgasm: This is common in stories but not in real life. Women usually want an opponent of roughly equal size and weight. Women involved in a sexfight start sweating pretty quickly, which makes their bodies slippery. Peolpe familiar with this techinque have said that if a woman slick from sweat is really trying to resist her opponent, e.g., by pushing away, it is almost impossible to overpower the woman, hold her helpless and stimulate her enough to make her orgasm. (Regarding the difference between "overpower" and "beat up", a wrestler who pins her opponent is not beaitng her up.)
Unconsciousness: This is not particulraly rare in stories but unheard of in videos due to the possbiility of severe injury or even death. Basically, the idea is that one opponent renders the other unconscious with a smohter hold, choking, etc. Often it involves a "sleeper" hold or the victor covering the loser's face with her ass. Sometimes it invovles a woman with huge tits holding her opopnent in her cleavage. The breast smother is most commonly found in male-female stories.
Most Orgasms: A number of us have discussed this on the Sensuous Tribadism and Kissing website because it sounds like this would be a huge turn-on for those of us who like to see the women orgasm. Unfortunately, AvidMike has poitned out that this would really wind up as just two women faking a lot of orgasms.
Male versus Female: Although videos are available they are quite rare and hgihly scripted and they involve sveerely mismatched opponents, such as a 180-pound 6 foot-tall woman bodybuilder and experienced wrestler versus a 5 foot 4 inch 110-pound man with no wrestling experience. Stories tend to be quite absurd, as they will ivnolve thnigs like a guy in his mid-20's to mid-30's cumming 4 times in an hour.
Sexfight / Cockfight Combo:A few stories conatin this theme but no videos because essentially a sexfight is lesbian porn, a cockfight is gay male porn and they appeal to diffeernt audiences. Also, the audience for sexfight materials is mainly male and straight men tend to feel uncomfortable about gay materials.
Multiple-opponent matches:
AvidMike has indicated that, srtictly for practical reasons, it is extremely unlikely that anyone will ever produce a multiple-opponent video. The biggest problem is gettnig the modles to show up. He often has to cancel scheduled 2-girl shoots at the last minute.
"Handicap Match": A "handicap match" is a two-on-one match. In pro wrestling, this usually involves a really big and well-known wrestelr fighting two small wreslters who are newcomers and the big wrestler defeats both wrestlers. I have suggesetd to AvidMike having a woman who is pretty good at holding off her orgasms fight two women who have difficulty resisting orgasm, taking them on one at a time. An atlernative would be that the one woman can wear a bra, patnies and stockings and the two women have to fight nude, which would make stimulation more effective agianst them. Realistically, it is quite unlikely eitehr of those will happen. I have not seen stories with such a theme either.
Tag Team: In tag-team wrestling a wrestler can tag out with a partner. In a sexfight, this would be done to avoid an orgasm. The video would be one long wrestling match probably with a snigle orgasm.
Round Robin: I have suggested a variation to AvidMike with three girls, two at a time, where a woman swithces out after she cums. The benefit of this would be that the woman who didn't cum would be somewhat tired and probably quite turned on and now she would have to face a rseted opponent who is probably less excited because she has been watching but was not in physical contact with an opponent.
Battle Royal: In a Battle Royal, "anybody is game". If, for example, there were eight participants, they would randomly pair off and when a woman cums she would be eliminated. Ganging up would be allowed, etc. There have been a few Batlte Royal stories but they are rare and videos are virtually non-existent.
Two-Couples Sexfight: There are a few stroies in which couples ("A" & "B") sexfight, where Wife A takes on Boyfriend B while Girlfriend B takes on Husband A. When a person cums they are out of the fight. In one interesting story Boyfriend B cums, Wife A and Husband A gang up on Girlfriend B (allowed) and she makes both of them cum.
Combinations with other fetishes:
Bondage: There are some higlhy scripted vidoes where the winner ties up the loser and usually pretends to spank her, etc. Almost all of these are very poorly acted, with the sex completely faked. Also, people interested in sexfights genearlly are not interested in bondage and vice versa. Since these are both niche markets, it is even harder to find a customer base interested in both.
Sex Toys: There are some scripted videos where the opponents use sex toys at some point. Usually, these will have three segments, one with toys, one a sexfight and a third segment. In general people interested in sexfihgts are not intreested in toys.
Wrestling in Oil, Jello, Mud, Spaghetti, etc.: These are quite rare. Women wrestling quikcly start sweating, so oil does not substantially increase slipperiness. Oil or mud make it almost impossible to hold the woman long enoguh to make her orgasm. In addition, oil makes any medium or long hair look ratty, not sexy. People itnerested in watching sexfights generally want to see the forced orgasms, not women covered in mud.
Golden Showers, etc.: Again, both these and sexfgihting are niche markets, with essenitally no overlap. Many of Aussie Greg's stories contain a bit of such content but he is almost uniuqe in this.